vanity? what for?
04.06.05 (6:42 am) [edit]I sent an evil mail to G hopign this would put an end.
This man G and I were once living together when he was still married; I let him live in my apartment when he fled his marriage until he found another woman to go after. This is a long time ago. I was never in love with man but meant to be helpful until I discovered that this way of kindness'd never help him; he was a kind who would stay as he really did unless anything hurted him. That was how I kicked him out of my place and found myself disturbed for the damage caused by this situation. The reason I still have to brood on this ancient history is because this man has been quite a burden in my life. Today I just wrote to him requesting to remove himself from my life. He now is divorced happily and living with a young woman. Yes, he is very well taken care of on top of I do not need his freindship. The reason he is still pestoring me is, according what he discribes is he is "concerned for my well being". This is the exact rethoric men resort to when they really want to get some benefit from women, or when THEY need to be taken care of. In other words, they always use the speech pattern of offering something when they really want to take. My answer to this favor is "What do you want to take more from me? You took enough already. " I am figuring he might want to regain his honor that had been proven none to me in the past. Well, two things can be said.
a) Well, too late.
b) what do you need to restore it for? Like you did not do anything to me.
However, there is no limit of guy's vainity and greed. His enthusiasm might be directed to this sort of area; good facade. He can't take it if he might be conceived as a bad guy when he really proved himself to be it. All in all, it is pointless.